Media/Gender
I saw this cover in the grocery store, and actually had to stop and take a breath and remind myself that its a tabloid, and that to get angry at a magazine whose level of discourse is pitch perfect for monkeys and those about to be assaulted by a dental drill is about as sensible as getting angry at the sun, for shining. Its what they do – push buttons for money.
I had a lot to say about this, but luckily, Melissa at Shakesville said it for me, and better, so I will just add two things. One: every day, as the parent of little girls, I am confronted by a reminder that our culture will never make for them the room they deserve to just be – to just be the people they are supposed to be. That everything about them will always be subject to the kind of scrutiny and interpretation that our culture revels in, when it comes to women. And two: the obsession in tabloid journalism regarding celebrity children is off-putting and creepy. A grown man, hiding in the bushes, snapping hundreds of photos of unsuspecting little children and selling those photos to the highest bidder. That is what this cover represents.


“Morning commute” radio in Chicago is a piss-poor assortment that sounds something like this: all-male crew spewing misogyny, all-male crew spewing misogyny, and Eric and Kathy, a male-female crew, spewing (slightly less) misogyny than the rest of their cohort. Never heard them? Let me summarize. Every day, their conversation goes like this: Eric says something awful about women, or makes fun of gay people, or comments on Kathy’s breasts, or calls their traffic reporter a spinster, or talks about how he is a caveman who doesn’t understand his wife’s need to use hair conditioner (essentially, he is completely ripping off Tim Allen’s entire ’80s stand-up routine), and then Kathy squeals. That’s it. Their whole schtick.